Today I have some questions.
What happens when you and your partner become (dis)connected?
What happens when you find your way back, but then lose it all over again?
More importantly, what happens when it keeps happening in the same way?
What happens when one of you psycho-analyses and changes habits and the other doesn’t?
Should this mean the end of the relationship?
What happens when five years down the track you notice your relationship has become cyclical and habitual?
I know some couples that have been together 40 years and they are stuck in the same cycle. Is everybody? Is this the nature of life and relationships? Is it bad or does it serve to keep us in check?
I am not just talking about arguments. I am talking about all aspects of a relationship with a life partner.